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The Habit to Break for a Brighter Future

November 20, 20242 min read

Success is not an elusive dream reserved for the select few; it's attainable by anyone determined to reach for it. The most successful people have a trait in common: they are positive and forward-looking. Surprisingly, intelligence, passion, or even focus isn't always the roadblock to success. The biggest barrier? Negativity.

Negative thoughts infiltrate every corner of our lives — self-doubt, cynical views of others, and a bleak outlook on the world around us.

If you aspire to be successful, you must shed negativity about your abilities. A relentless cycle of self-doubt and negative inner dialogue can derail even the most promising paths. Recognize this habit for what it is — not an unbreakable chain, but a habit you can and must break.

Negativity towards the people and the world around you — family, friends, colleagues, or even strangers at the store — is hindering your progress. These thoughts cloud your judgment, impede your willingness to take risks, and limit your potential to seek assistance from those around you. Remember, success is a collaborative journey, not a solitary pursuit. You need others' perspectives and support to reach your full potential. If doubt creeps in as you hear this, recognize it as the sly whisper of that pesky negative habit.

Just as your body requires nutritious food, so does your mind. To conquer the cycle of negativity, actively nourish your mind with positive ideas and energy. Explore TED talks, read inspirational books, engage in uplifting conversations, or seek guidance from a therapist. Whatever it takes to infuse your mind with positivity, do it.

Consider a short detox: eliminate the constant barrage of negative news and social media feeds for 30 days. While it may seem extreme, these outlets often cultivate seeds of negativity more than positivity. In doing so, replace that "negative diet" with one rich in inspiration and optimism.

Breaking the negativity habit starts with acknowledging its presence. Set a goal to catch yourself when negative thoughts arise. Pause, reflect, and attempt to find positivity in each situation. By controlling your thoughts and internal dialogue, you begin retraining your mind.

Remember, transformation doesn't happen overnight, but it does happen. You possess the mental strength to blossom into a more positive thinker, a more positive person, and to uncover the abundant opportunities the world holds for you and your future.

My mission is to help others find the success and balance in their lives that they both desire and deserve, and to eliminate the “there has to be more to life than this” 3:00 AM Feeling. I have worked with individuals and teams throughout my 35+  year management career. My focus has always been on personal and professional development to help people become a success in all areas of their lives. Everyone needs some help from time to time defining what success means to them and then getting after it and making it happen.

Paul Kamm

My mission is to help others find the success and balance in their lives that they both desire and deserve, and to eliminate the “there has to be more to life than this” 3:00 AM Feeling. I have worked with individuals and teams throughout my 35+ year management career. My focus has always been on personal and professional development to help people become a success in all areas of their lives. Everyone needs some help from time to time defining what success means to them and then getting after it and making it happen.

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